Letter to my Graduating Seniors

May 9, 2006

Dear 4D,

It's hard for me to believe that I won’t be having any more lessons with you after what feels like such a long time. I walked away from our last class feeling a heaviness in my heart and wishing that I could have said more…communicated better what a privilege and blessing it has been for me to spend this time with you over the last three years.

So, if you'll let me take another five minutes of your time during your crazy study week, I would like to add a few more thoughts to what I've already said. I've always been a person who feels like I communicate myself better through writing than speaking. It was a busy time in our last lesson and, truthfully, I felt a little bit shy. So, here is my second chance…

First, I want you to know that I really meant everything I said to you in the little notes that I wrote. Each one of you has a special place in my heart and it was a joy for me to tell you more personally what I love and will miss about you. I hope others in your life also share with you their praise and thanks, but even if they don't, I wanted you to have it at least from me.

You are a special group of young people and it has been so much fun for me to get to know you better. I remember the first time I met you—a quiet but enthusiastic group who would be "all mine," unlike most of the groups I taught whom I saw only once a week. It felt like a big responsibility and I was afraid I might not give you everything you needed. In fact, my first year of teaching was a pretty scary time for me! You made it worthwhile and you helped me to feel welcome and appreciated at the school. Thank you for that.

I have fun memories of some of the skits you acted for me, the funny stories you wrote, our joint frustration over confusing grammar (you did okay in the end!), your creativity, your smiles, your laughter… If you ask my husband, he'll tell you how fondly I have always spoken of my time with your class. I will never forget you.

When I think about you graduating and moving on, there are so many things I want to tell you. Most of all, I encourage you to live in and enjoy the present moment and not worry too much about the future. Be honest, faithful, and real in love and know that mutual commitment with someone for a lifetime is a special gift that gives back to you more than you give.(It's also a lot of hard work, but worth every bit!) Don't worry about pleasing people—do what you know is right. But also truly listen to the important people in your life, with an open heart and open mind. Have a heart of compassion for others and be patient and slow to judge people. Be sensitive to your inner heart and don't ignore the breath of God inside you. Whether you believe it or not, I know God's deep love for each one of you. I hope some day you will know it too.

I will miss you, but I will continue to pray for each of you, as I have for the last three years.

Many blessings,
Jenny Thomas